Breaking
everything down so this is not long!
Melt
downs with Liam have become a big bottle of Tylenol and blood pressure to go
up! I really do not understand why he thinks it okay to yell at me and demand
like he does. No one in our home does that! He has become clinger; which is
normal with a newborn coming soon but lord son lay off mommy’s grub! Lol
Liam
honestly expects to have the house television on the channel he wants, the t.v.
in his room on what he wants and to top it off he wants to watch cartoons on my
iPhone as well. You are not allowed to change a channel without a sudden melt
down! Thankfully, we do not allow him to win that battle and stand our ground.
Yesterday
Ian had to be picked up from school due to a kid poking him in the eye. Poor
kid really is dramatic about little things like that. You would think someone
ripped his eye out! But with much understanding and assuring him, he finally overcame
the pain.
Over
the weekend, we allowed Taylor to hang out with her friends walking around town
and being a teen. Well she came home, mention she brought a dress and my mind
went to “Wait what? With what money?”. The first lie was I had money which was
untrue and I soon confronted her with my thoughts and how much it bugs us. I
was firm and direct with Taylor. I do and waiting on receipt for that dress!
Even though she told me her friend purchased the dress for her and that she is
going to pay her back. This type of stuff doesn’t fly with me/us. I want my
daughter to earn things on her own or ask us. Her friend’s parents work hard to
give her friend money for how ever their daughter earns it. Taylor lacks that
want or desire to earn by doing her chorus and we have seen such a huge change in
her since we moved back home. But I do hope the fact that she lied, can paint
such a harsh opinion on her behavior when she hangs out with one friend. So she
lost her phone, laptop and has to prove that dress was purchased! Friday is not
that far away!
This
is life in my world, things we deal with and so many other parents! I at times
want to hide in a cave when it becomes all too much and to be honest, things
are so different raising kids these days than they were when I was growing up.
I was kept home all the time and rarely hung out with my friends because of my
home life wasn’t the best. At the age of 12, my mother left and I had to step
up and be a mom to my siblings. At age 16, my dad really expected me to really
be the mom roll for my siblings and my young teen years never existed. It hurts
to this day and just this year my dad finally apologized for it and how much I
did help. I just wish my daughter really appreciated the things we provide for
her, even if we don’t have much money and trying our best for her. Over all I
hope all my kids appreciate the things we do for them when we can without the
slap in the face that we get from them. Life is full of people with much less
and it seems I can’t get the people in my home to see that or the want to
change how we live. But I know one day God will show them and help me get
through it without landing me with a ticket the mental home for free meals and
plenty of sleep lol.